Can anyone recommend a bereavement poem?

I am so sorry that you have lost your cousin. I myself am no stranger to loss I became a widower on March 24, 2006. Three years prior to that I lost my fiancee' to cancer. I had gone to the library in tears when my wife had passed on and found myriad of poetry suited for such an occasion however I did not use any that I had found, on account of they were not from my heart they were not my words my emotions, so I sat down to write and spoke my heart at the funeral.